We will have to get permission from Murox the Moron and BC before that can be discussed.
Here's a recycled Asian . . . from NJ. Went to a good, wealthy, private college. Daddy is an insurance exec for a major company in NYC. She was raised in a mansion in NJ (tennis court, pool, pond, basketball court, etc.). Really cool, down-to-earth girl, great humor, slightly above average intelligence, very personable, always dresses extremely well, huge sex drive, great tits, down for quite a bit of fun.
For the last 4 years, she has been dating an MLS player. He lives out west. She was in Florida and needed the D, so I provided it a handful of times. He found out about it once he picked her up from the airport on one of her visits there a few years ago. She lied about it repeatedly. He contacted me. I had no reason to lie. She continued to deny it and said her friend (the source) was lying about it. He contacted me again claiming that I was a liar and in on it with her friend, etc. I really didn't care. Eventually, she admitted it to him. He contacted me a third time calling me a "loser" etc. because I was in my thirties banging a 22 year old. Again, I don't care. She had to stop following me on Instagram, I don't hear from her for a couple of years, blah, blah blah.
About three months ago, I randomly saw a picture of her. Surprisingly, I wasn't blocked on her Instagram (but still was on her Facebook), so I wrote her again (not knowing if she was still with the soccer player). By this point, she didn't trust me and thought I was trying to get her in trouble again. After she realized I wasn't, she started getting too into me again . . . texting me naked pics, Facetiming me with her toy, etc. For the last few months, she texts/Facetimes me a couple of times per week. Sometimes just to talk, sometimes because she wants the D. About two weeks ago, she asked when she could come visit me. So by this point, she has been living in his house (a nice house in a good area) for the last 2+ years. Last week, on her Instagram story, she posted pictures of him proposing to her. So now she is engaged, her family flew out to visit her and celebrate with her, and I haven't heard from her. It's been more than a week since I have heard from her. I'd love to think that now that she is engaged, she is straightening up, but the far more likely scenario is that she doesn't know how to bring up the elephant in the room to me and doesn't want me to lecture her.
Do I pretend that I am disappointed and break it off with her or do I allow her to come visit as part of her Bachelorette weekend?