One of the most important things to you is making sure gays can't be married? You're right - it is a moral issue. And if you're against equality based on who somebody loves, then your morals are as poor as your intelligence.
Want to know what else are "moral issues" that you're supposed to be against? Cheating on your wife . . . multiple wives . . . and publicly boasting about it; sexually assaulting women; not helping your poor neighbor; stealing; promoting violence against the non-violent . . . I could go on-and-on, but no matter what I say, you'll turn your head away from the guy who is shooting innocent people while walking down Fifth Ave.
Dems don't back the rioters and looters. We are just intelligent enough to realize which is the bigger issue between government officials killing unarmed black men compared with the reaction to those killings of destroying property.
If you stole a pack of gum from me, because I raped your wife, would you be more focused on your theft of a pack of gum from me or my raping of your wife?