Whatever a gay folk wants to be called. Probably those letters that I always put in the wrong order. Or just don't mention they are gay, because it really isn't important.Still yet no one provides what we should be using instead…. What is the appropriate PC word for “gay” these days? What is the appropriate PC word for Retard these days?
What is the correct PC derogatory slur for the Chinese these days? Give us a damn list!
The other word...it depends. Could be a person with an intellectual disability, developmental disability, autism, neurodivergent, just depends on the actual diagnosis. And some folks with autism prefer neurodivergent and feel autism better describes what we would think of as classic autism (which is more profound), because the spectrum is so wide.