Sugarcoating is exactly what has been happening. Ever since this summer it’s been nonstop he’s doing great cutting weight he’s going to dominate etc etc. here we are 3-5 month later and he’s still out of shape and overweight. I’m sorry I can’t get excited for a kid that has been hyped for a while but at best will give us 8-10 min a night. That doesn’t mean I don’t root for the kid,cheer for his successes and want him to be great.
I don’t think anyone disagrees with you and I’m not doubting that you wish him well. I just think that you overestimate that you somehow see the the world more accurately than others. DD himself made the comment in yesterday’s HD article that IB was playing with 40 pounds too much weight. I don’t think there’s a single person here that doesn’t understand that IB needs to lose weight. But what I see in your calling IB fat under the guise of honesty and telling it like it is is really just uncalled for rudeness. And if you’re going to go down that road of exercising your right to call out a kid on a message board, then you shouldn’t be surprised when others exercise that same right in criticizing you.