Your blindness to protect "your side" is embarrassing. Your analogy is wrong. It should be, if I had your money and you had my friends and I was required to drive the money to your house and park in your garage before they would be set free, is it a ransom?
We took the money to them while they still had the hostages. We landed the plane with the money while they still had the hostages. We said here's your money, now release the hostages and we will let you offload the money and take it with you. It's just like every movie you see, two cars parked on opposite ends of a bridge, you meet in the middle of the bridge and exchange the money for the hostage.