The "VP" time line and father (Harvard degree) is a little misleading. Obama barely knew his father during his formative years (Obama's own words), his mother sending him to be with grandparents while she lived with husband #2, for many of his early years is a typical social structure (absent parents) for many in the hood.
Misleading? His mother was the VP of a bank while Barack was still living with her. From his birth until age 11, Barack was with his mother full-time. This included working her way up from clerk at a bank to a vice-president and continuing to earn degrees. It was also when he was enrolled in a private school. Then, at age 11, Barack moved to Hawaii with his grandparents. Just one year later, his mother moved back to Hawaii where she joined Barack. She was with him for three more years there. So, from birth until age 15, Barack was with his mother full-time for 14 years. Misleading? Hardly. Hell, kids in Greenwich go to summer camp for two months every year until they are 16. Those kids are without their CEO parents far more than Barack was without his mother. You're really trying to claim that it is misleading by saying that Barack's formative years were spent with a mother who earned multiple degrees and worked her way up from a bank teller to a vice-president? What I claimed is exactly correct and entirely valid.
Like I explained thoroughly. "Getting out" is about making a decision to do something different for your life... first. Until the individual accepts that simple premise....nothing will change for them.
This just shows how disconnected you are from reality. You have two groups in these neighborhoods. You have a group which claims that they are going to be the one to make it out and buy their mother a house in the suburbs. Then, you have the group that is realistic and knows the chances of them doing that are slim to none.
When your formative years are spent in these neighborhoods, you have very little chance at getting out. You can't simply have a switch turned on showing how to do things. Watching The Cosby Show is not a blueprint to success. Wanting to be the one that gets out isn't the problem; there are many who want to get out. Having the opportunity to do that is what is the issue, which I will delve into in my next post.
But claiming that this problem is rooted in an individual not making a decision to do something different with their life shows an extreme disconnect with reality.
Suggesting that anyone cant look to another for inspiration, learn their habits, thoughts, etc. simply because their current socioeconomic class isn't identical to the "mentor" one looks to emulate is ridiculous.
It isn't ridiculous, it is reality. There are multiple issues related to how far you are disconnected from reality. First, there aren't examples for them to look to. As I said, watching The Cosby Show isn't an example. Second, even if they were able to see a blueprint from somebody close to them, the means just aren't there. They don't have the same resources as most other places in the country. Again, I will touch on that in my next post.
More disturbing, a white dude "looking down from an office window" and inferring that they most likely "cant" or "wont", simply because of a "statistic", is the kind of systematic racism that continues to lock these people in the hood for generations. You're mocking the idea that a kid from the hood that I hire or mentor (or a kid you recruit and/or coach) cant learn or model their life, to make changes and live differently from my/your experiences and knowledge, simply because I/you didn't grow up in the projects. This is the kind of bigotry that has to be eliminated from culture if there is to ever be a reduction in poverty and improvement in race relations.
That is one of the worst leaps I have seen on this board in quite a long time.
Oh, you're hiring kids from the 'hood without a high school degree? Interesting. Let me know what positions and how many you are hiring.
Yes, I am saying that the vast majority of these kids aren't going to make it out. Why? They don't have a blueprint or the resources to make it out. Put my ass in their exact same situation from birth, and I would also easily bet against myself to make it out.
Look at Carol City High School. As seniors, their math proficiency score as a school is 14%. Only 14% of their seniors - the ones who from that neighborhood who actually stayed in school - are proficient in math for their grade level. Their college readiness score is 7.5. 7.5! These are the kids who actually stay in school. And you think they have a chance? They don't. It isn't for lack of desire or effort. It is for lack of a blueprint and a severe lack of resources.
Want to see the notable and successful alums from Carol City? Rick Ross, Flo Rida, Denzel Curry (rapper), Brisco (rapper), and a bunch of former professional athletes (Danny Tartabull, Santana and Sinorice Moss, Rannell Hall, Allen Hurns, Nick Esasky, etc.). Hell, kids from that school have a better chance becoming a famous rapper or professional athlete than they do of becoming an MD, attorney, etc.
You think it is bigoted to claim that they have a slim chance of making it out? Tell me this - who do you put more money on going to college and/or earning a college degree:
A) Tyler Whiteman from Greenwich whose father is a CFO at a Fortune 500 company, mother is an MD but only works low hours per week at the hospital, has had the same bilingual nanny since his birth, goes to one of the best private schools in the northeast, and has numerous classmates whose parents are all Ivy alums and Fortune 500 executives
B) Jermaine Blackman from Overtown whose father was murdered when Jermaine was two years old, whose mother left years ago after having numerous drug/prostitution arrests, whose grandmother works three jobs over seven days per week in order to afford the two bedroom apartment for Jermaine and his two siblings to live in with her, who goes to Booker T High School.
Who do you think has a better chance? Is it bigoted to think that Tyler Whiteman has a better chance at success? Of course it isn't. It is based on having the resources to be successful. One of them does, one of them doesn't.
It isn't an issue of "mocking a kid from the 'hood . . . not being able to make changes and live differently . . . from a mentor." It is that they don't have that mentor to learn from nor the resources to make it happen.
Stating otherwise is just a severe lack of reality.